Everything else is secondary

A couple of weeks back, I wrote a column entitled “love what you do”. In it, I reprinted portions of the text of the commencement speech that Apple founder Steve Jobs gave to the graduating class of Stanford University in 2005. It generated a lot of positive reaction from people about doing something in life that they love to do. Yvette, for that matter, who I wrote about in the beginning of that column, actually quit her job to start a business that she loves to do. She quoted Steve Jobs when the latter said, “The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything.” She wrote that she was happy and excited to begin.

Today’s headlines are full of news of impending and looming gloom, of crisis upon crisis. It bears down heavily on people when they read about looming price increases, especially in the price of gasoline. We begin to worry. Entrepreneurs, especially small ones , worry the most. I don’t have the answers nor will I even attempt to understand everybody’s situation. But I can help contribute to shaping people’s perspective to their situations. I would like to continue sharing the third part of the commencement speech that Steve Jobs gave to the 2005 graduating class of Standford University.

Steve began ominously by stating very matter of fact, “My third story is about death.”

He continued, “When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: "If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you'll most certainly be right." It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: "If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?" And whenever the answer has been "No" for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.”

“Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.”

“About a year ago I was diagnosed with cancer. I had a scan at 7:30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas. I didn't even know what a pancreas was. The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three to six months. My doctor advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctor's code for prepare to die. It means to try to tell your kids everything you thought you'd have the next 10 years to tell them in just a few months. It means to make sure everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy as possible for your family. It means to say your goodbyes.”

“I lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a biopsy, where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor. I was sedated, but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery. I had the surgery and I'm fine now.”

Steve continued on telling the audience about what he had learned, he said , “Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”

In the face of the “crisis” that we read about, see or actually feel, what is really primary and secondary? As we look around at our situations, it is good to keep in mind that the bottom or the ceiling is only as deep or as high as we set it. It is good to acquire not only the right perspective in life, but also, the right kind of faith that assures you that things will become better.

Let’s follow the examples of these ordinary individuals as they strive to make a difference. Each week, lets all get together and share knowledge, stories, experiences, information, all for the sole purpose of getting One Step Up.

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